estate planning for unmarried couples in new jersey

Estate Planning for Unmarried Couples In New Jersey

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Estate planning is crucial for unmarried couples in New Jersey, as they lack many of the legal protections automatically granted to married couples. Without proper planning, partners may find themselves unable to make important decisions for each other or inherit assets as intended. Let’s explore the key aspects of estate planning for unmarried couples in the Garden State.

What is an Estate Plan for an Unmarried Couple?

An estate plan for an unmarried couple is a set of legal documents that outline how assets should be distributed and decisions made if one partner becomes incapacitated or passes away. In New Jersey, this typically includes wills, trusts, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives[3].

Why Estate Planning for Unmarried Couples is Crucial

Estate planning is particularly important for unmarried couples in New Jersey because:

  1. The state doesn’t recognize common law marriage.
  2. Intestacy laws don’t include unmarried partners as beneficiaries.
  3. Without legal documentation, partners have no say in medical or financial decisions[3].

How to Start Creating an Estate Plan

To begin estate planning:

  1. Take inventory of your assets.
  2. Discuss your wishes with your partner.
  3. Consult with a New Jersey estate planning attorney.
  4. Draft necessary documents like wills, trusts, and powers of attorney.

Differences Between Married Couples and Unmarried Couples in Planning

In New Jersey, married couples enjoy certain benefits that unmarried couples don’t:

  1. Automatic inheritance rights
  2. Ability to make medical decisions for an incapacitated spouse
  3. Tax benefits on inherited property

Unmarried couples must create explicit legal arrangements to achieve similar protections.

How Can Unmarried Couples Designate a Beneficiary?

Understanding Beneficiary Designations

Unmarried couples in New Jersey can designate each other as beneficiaries on:

  1. Life insurance policies
  2. Retirement accounts
  3. Bank accounts
  4. Investment accounts[5]

Common Beneficiary Mistakes to Avoid

  1. Forgetting to update beneficiaries after major life changes
  2. Naming minors as direct beneficiaries
  3. Failing to name contingent beneficiaries

What are the Benefits of a Trust for Unmarried Couples?

Trusts offer several advantages for unmarried couples in New Jersey:

  1. Avoid probate
  2. Maintain privacy
  3. Provide for a partner while protecting assets for children from previous relationships[5]

Types of Trusts Suitable for Unmarried Partners

  1. Revocable Living Trusts
  2. Irrevocable Trusts
  3. Asset Protection Trusts

Setting Up a Revocable Living Trust

A revocable living trust allows you to:

  1. Transfer assets into the trust
  2. Manage assets during your lifetime
  3. Specify how assets should be distributed after death[5]

Role of a Trustee in Managing Assets

The trustee:

  1. Manages trust assets
  2. Makes distributions according to trust terms
  3. Has a fiduciary duty to act in the best interests of beneficiaries

How Does Joint Ownership Work for Unmarried Couples?

Exploring Property Rights and Joint Tenants

In New Jersey, unmarried couples can own property as:

  1. Tenants in common
  2. Joint tenants with rights of survivorship[3]

Understanding Joint Tenants with Rights of Survivorship

This form of ownership:

  1. Allows property to pass directly to the surviving partner
  2. Avoids probate for the jointly owned asset[3]
  1. Both partners have equal rights to the property
  2. Creditors of one partner may have claims on the property
  3. May complicate estate planning for children from previous relationships

Why is a Power of Attorney Essential for Unmarried Couples?

The Importance of Durable Power of Attorney

A durable power of attorney allows your partner to:

  1. Manage your finances if you’re incapacitated
  2. Make important decisions on your behalf[3]

Choosing the Right Proxy for Decision-Making

Consider:

  1. Your partner’s ability to handle financial matters
  2. Their understanding of your wishes
  3. Their willingness to take on the responsibility

Health Care Directive and Proxy Considerations

In New Jersey, unmarried partners should have:

  1. A healthcare power of attorney
  2. A living will
  3. HIPAA authorization forms[3]

These documents ensure your partner can make medical decisions and access your health information if needed.

By creating a comprehensive estate plan, unmarried couples in New Jersey can protect their rights, ensure their wishes are respected, and provide for each other in the event of incapacity or death. It’s wise to consult with a local estate planning attorney to tailor your plan to New Jersey’s specific laws and your unique situation.

Citations: [3] https://www.superlawyers.com/resources/family-law/new-jersey/how-to-protect-yourself-if-youre-cohabiting-in-new-jersey/ [5] https://info.wealthcounsel.com/blog/estate-planning-considerations-for-unmarried-couples

About Benjamin D. Eckman, Esq.

Benjamin D. Eckman, Esq., is a New Jersey attorney specializing in Elder Law and Estate Planning. With decades of experience, he helps seniors and their families address critical legal, financial, and healthcare needs, including drafting wills, trusts, special needs trusts, and powers of attorney. His practice focuses on asset protection, managing healthcare costs, and preserving eligibility for government benefits like Medicaid.

Mr. Eckman has lectured throughout New Jersey to senior groups, nursing facilities, and professional associations, and his articles have appeared in newspapers and journals. He holds a law degree from Seton Hall University School of Law and is a member of the New York State Bar Association, the New Jersey State Bar Association, a past member of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys, the Elder Law Section and Real Property, Probate and Trust Section of the New Jersey State Bar Association, the Union County Bar Association, Passaic County Bar Association and the Bergen County Bar Association.

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